tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-393812016257945197.post1412662483263066508..comments2023-09-20T10:34:24.891-04:00Comments on Today's Sexy Mom: When He's Not in the Mood...Tips For dealing With Your Partner's Waning LibidoMs. Ehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18368685070997137912noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-393812016257945197.post-32655196173860094342011-10-27T16:58:05.055-04:002011-10-27T16:58:05.055-04:00I can across this and found it interesting. As a g...I can across this and found it interesting. As a guy, I come across more women with the low libido than men. How do couples with different libidos end up together? Should the high libido women end up with the high libido guys and the opposite for low libidos? I have a high libido and it is a constant challenge to get any intimacy from my SO. Very frustrating as you saw from your situation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-393812016257945197.post-87285733495417249162010-10-19T21:46:39.995-04:002010-10-19T21:46:39.995-04:00This is the one that hit me. My SO and I are busy ...This is the one that hit me. My SO and I are busy with work and our schedules and privacy don't mesh. But when they do, it's magic. :) So we do what we can and hope for more time. It's hard, and it gets me upset. But the love we have is what makes it all the better.J.B.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-393812016257945197.post-51643418441369392782010-07-10T11:39:07.009-04:002010-07-10T11:39:07.009-04:00Hi there anonymous! The first time this article wa...Hi there anonymous! The first time this article was published on Club Mom Inc, I got an influx of mail from married ladies who were in the same boat as I. I was shocked because I too believed my case was the exception to the sexual rule. But it seems that in many bedrooms across America, men are turning to their wives and saying, "Not tonight honey, I have a headache."<br /><br />Something you said in your comment sort of disturbed me. You said, "If this really did happen to you, you should remember the feeling, as this is what men go through on a fairly regular basis."<br /><br />First off, I'd never make something this humiliating up. Ms E wants to be the insatiable sex kitten who has her husband falling at her feet and fullfilling her every sexual whim. But that's not the case at all. We are a regualr couple with kids, bills, stresses and other things that send our libidos into the toilet. Secondly, I will never forget how it felt to be turned down which is why, on the rare occasions I am not in the mood, I sweetly tell my husband I'm not feeling well and why....then offer an alternative to take care of his immediate needs.<br /><br />Yes, we all have that need to feel wanted and desired and sometimes our partners aren't the best at keeping that in mind when they say no to sex. All they have on their mind at the moment is the headache/ bodyache/what the boss said earlier etc and aren't thinking about our feelings.<br /><br />It is a 2 way street....which is why marriage and relationships aren't easy...they are constant work to keep things running smoothly.<br /><br />Thanks so much for your comment!Ms. Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18368685070997137912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-393812016257945197.post-90558069514745881082010-07-09T12:25:36.427-04:002010-07-09T12:25:36.427-04:00Are you kidding us, Edie??!! I guess there are gu...Are you kidding us, Edie??!! I guess there are guys out there who would fit this scenario, but I believe it to be the exception, rather than the rule. I would cut off my arm (figuratively) to have my wife pursue me!! Of the few times my wife has initiated, I would have been scared to death to refuse her advances, for fear of discouraging her future attempts, if there were any! I think, if this really did happen to you, you should remember the feeling, as this is what men go through on a fairly regular basis. Now, mind you, my sex life is not bad, these days, but I most certainly remember times that I felt rejected, resentment, and suspicion, when my advances weren't met with something other than disgust. Don't you think a kind response from the "rejector" would be much more effective than a digusted grunt, then "STOP", or to simply be laughed at? To be desired is such a turn on for me, as well as, an incredible ego boost! We all, as we grow older, become less, shall we say nubine. But, I think my wife is the most beautiful woman in the world, in my eyes! I still have a great desire for my wife, and hopefully, my libido will survive. I guess what I'm saying is this thing is a 2 way street. What are you saying to your partner when you reject their advances? I can't speak for everyone, but I have a need for intimacy in my life. I'd just like to feel that, if my partner isn't in the mood, that I'm made to feel that I'm desired, too, just not at that time. I hope you do get published, someday!! Good luck!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com